How to Lose your Virginty

Sorry folks internet at new place has gone tits up and trying to sort it. So nice back log of emails from people to read.

As an avid fan, reader and taken part in a article the fun people at The American Virgin have released a trailer for there up coming documentary "How to Lose your Virginity"

Our new trailer! "How To Lose Your Virginity" from Trixie Films on Vimeo.

Check it out. They were raising money but as I said it was part of my back log on emails to read so missed it and they have now reached there funds so good for them. Check out the following links.

The American Virgin Blog

Official Website

Secret Virgin Interview

Yours

Secret Virgin

Droopage?

According to the Sex Education show which I watched recently, Women start 'drooping' at 30.

Think I better get my skates on.

Yours
Secret Virgin

Taking the First Step

Went to check up on my new apartment today and took my parents along for advice.

On the train journey home there was a very cute guy sitting opposite me Bit like David Tennant but with a smaller face and a bit shorter. I did on a couple of attempts to catch his eye with not much success and seem a bit difficult with parents there.

On the rare occasion that I had a "partner" I was always approached and never the other way round. So I have very little idea on how to approach someone I liked, never taken the first step in a relationship. Does it make a difference?

I have been rejected many times threw out my life so I tend to let someone make the big steps forward and I just either agree or disagree. A few missed opportunities but didn't think they were opportunities till it was too late.

Maybe that's what's wrong. You would think a string of rejections add another one it wouldn't make a difference but to me it does.

As it was very hot I wore a very tight fitting a dress and when I bent over it didn't leave much to the imagination on the top regions. But he seem to go out of his way not to look at me directly, having the folks there put him off a bit.

I am waiting for something but don't know what. Once I get going I am myself. Why can't I take that first step?

Yours
Secret Virgin

The Dark Side of Birth Control

I have recently been sent an email from Kelly Davis who has sent me a link from a website called The Health Crazies. It's a very interesting article about birth control i.e. the pill. Which marks it's 50th anniversary in the States this year.

I'm not currently on any type of birth control, thou some concerned family members of mine want me to see the Doctor about my period and think it's a good idea to go on the pill to help control it. I have naturally thought about it and still continue to do so, but have heard some bad side affects to the pill, like severe headaches and in some rare cases has been known to be a contributor to Cervical cancer.

There are many other forms of birth control including new methods an injection you get every 3 months and also an implant in the arm, which needs to be surgically removed if you want to have a baby. I like the injection idea but then I don't think I will natural without a period as it has been driven into me that no period means something bad (or good if you want to get pregnant).

Once I start having sex will obviously will have to really make a serious decision as to the right course of action as a condom isn't 100%. But then the emergency morning after pill is available and again not 100% so probably better off with a combination of birth control and protection.

Take a look and read the article about Birth Control. It's very informative wither you are on the pill or not.

The Dark Side of Birth Control: 17 Adverse Health Effects

Yours
Secret Virgin

A Little "May" Time - Part III

It's the last day of May and so comes the end (pun not intended there) of National Masturbation Month. I of course celebrated with a little me time this morning and was very good today, thou don't think I did anything different apart from it took me a little longer to get going then usual.

During my many years of virginal self love I have come across a couple of sites of great interest and based on this topic, mainly around female masturbation but some handy tips for anyone looking or seeking some pleasure alone or getting to know your partner better as well as the usual safety tips and advice that goes along with any type of intercourse.

Scarleteen

The Clitoris.com

Got a lot of ideas from this site. First place that explained masturbating standing up, which I have done a couple of times, but lie down more often. Also very informative about the female genitalia.

Yours
Secret Virgin

Condoms 'too big'?

Oh dear. Won't be going to India anytime soon.

A survey of more than 1,000 men in India has concluded that condoms made according to international sizes are too large for a majority of Indian men.

The study found that more than half of the men measured had penises that were shorter than international standards for condoms.

It has led to a call for condoms of mixed sizes to be made more widely available in India.

The two-year study was carried out by the Indian Council of Medical Research.

Over 1,200 volunteers from the length and breadth of the country had their penises measured precisely, down to the last millimetre.

The scientists even checked their sample was representative of India as a whole in terms of class, religion and urban and rural dwellers.

The conclusion of all this scientific endeavour is that about 60% of Indian men have penises which are between three and five centimetres shorter than international standards used in condom manufacture.  

BBC Report

Oh dear poor Indian women. Let's hope these men have technique and stamina. ;)


Yours
Secret Virgin

A Little "May" Time - Part II

With the stress of finding a home I let off a bit of steam.

But then I got to thinking. I have never managed to get any vaginal climaxing when masturbating. I tried twice and first off felt un-comfy and didn't go in to far and second even when aroused I still couldn't get the finale. I seem to be more of a clitoral masturbator as I get more of a feeling and relief that way.

Now as a virgin I have no way of comparing or really know what it is to have a penis inserted, but I have began wandering if when it comes down to it really enjoy it because I am not getting the stimulation or get to the finish line.

I am worried I am going to become really disappointed and then wonder why I waited so long for 3 mins of heavy breathing.

Understandably I have read a few women don't get to that stage at all. Just seems pointless.

But on the other hand I did insert my finger slightly coming to climax and did feel 'good' ish. But then again it's a waste to sit there waiting for it.

Yours
Secret Virgin