A new start

I feel like a new start is coming on. Looks like I am almost set to move to a new location and start a new chapter in my life.

Hopefully this will mean a new job as well as hopefully some sort of love life. I am going to be living in a much more sociable area then I am now. Yet this nagging feeling of remaining alone in the world still hangs there.

I think I might start up a step by step guide for myself for getting out and about and meeting more people.

Yours
Secret Virgin

The Science of Pulling

We all know pulling is an important part of attracting someone. Biology takes over and you are at the mercy of your emotions. But what is the best way to attract the man we want, what makes them attracted to us? Found this very interesting article.

Lust isn’t an art, it’s pure science. When you fancy a bloke, your rational mind is turned upside down by a crazy mix of hormones, subconscious psychology, chemistry and down n’ dirty biology. If he fancies you back, the result can be more explosive than anything you saw in the school science lab.

The good news is that you don’t need a biology degree, or even a bunsen burner, to master the appliance of man-pulling science. All you need is our cheat sheet. Let the lesson begin.

MSN Dating

I recommend the read, there's stuff in there that I didn't know about. Well I knew about the ovulation point. Here are there main points on pulling.

1. Win the Dating survival of he fittest.
Evolution hasn't changed much when it comes to sex. We still fight for that Alpha male, get ready to get them claws out girls.

Hot Tip from MSN Dating:

How to work it: Keep yourself in shape. And by “in shape” we mean healthy – skinny minnies may get the modelling jobs, but men are biologically primed to prefer women with well-toned flesh on her bones.

This is promising for me. Now I am slender but not thin, I exercise regularly when I can. Thou still working off that 7lb from Christmas.

2. Unleash you Pheromones 
Love at first Sniff? Seems to be

Tip from MSN Dating

How to work it: You can’t change your pheromones, but you can ensure that they’re picked up by potential lovers. Avoid smothering your natural pheromones with perfume, stinky food or BO.

3. Look Lippy
Thanks goodness for limp plumping technology in lip sticks. I also read somewhere that red lippy attracts best as it shows you are primed.

Tip from MSN Dating

How to work it: Forget about surgery – that makes your lips look “done”, not plump. The secret is lashings of lip balm, and lipstick with reddish shades.  

4. Face Facts
Yeah like I'm going to walk into a salon with a calculator and work out my best hair style. Thou well kept hair is going to get you more looks then a bee hive. Which reminds me need a haircut.

MSN Dating tip

How to work it: Get a haircut. Don’t take it from us, take it from the study’s author, Professor Kang Lee: "Our study explains why sometimes an attractive person looks unattractive or vice versa after a haircut, because hairdos change the ratios.” So take a calculator to the salon. Which reminds us…

5. Don't have a best side. 
That's OK I don't have one. Apparently symmetry is important when we go prowling for love.

MSN Dating Tip:

How to work it: Take a spirit level to the salon along with that calculator, and avoid experimenting with 80s asymmetrical hairdos.

Hands up who takes a spirit level with them to that salon?

6. Know your Cycle
I have just finished a cycle and boy was I horny as hell.

MSN Dating Tip

How to work it: Get an ovulation thermometer. When you’re hot, hit the town and work those ovaries.

7. Nip Your Waist  
I have always tried to accentuate my hips, waste and boobs when dressing as I do have a slight hourglass figure. It's finding the write stuff.

MSN Dating tip

How to work it: See it as an excuse to go nuts in Top Shop. This year’s dress shape is a pared-down prom look: nipped-in waists and flouncy hips. Alternatively, buy some Spanx.

8. Ignore the Beer Gogglers
Now this did surprise me a little. But thinking about alcohol does make you more prone to do something stupid then actually fall in love.

MSN Dating Tip

What to do: Spike his beer with tap water.

9. Mirror Mirror 
Being subtle always seems to work best. I think I need more refinement.

MSN Dating Tip

How to work it: Make a man feel instinctively feel connected to you by subtly mirroring his moves. We won’t suggest aping his dress style to help you look alike, because that’s what stalkers do.

10. Bewitch him with your eyes 
I have always wanted show stopping eyes but they tend to be hidden behind glasses. Maybe a new style is in order?

MSN Dating Tip

How to work it: Hold his eye for a second or two longer than you’d naturally find comfortable. Watch him tingle.

11. Avoid Dad-Dancers 
I always do, nothing less attractive then someone trying to compensate with over the top dancing.

MSN Dating Tip

How to work it: Take dance classes. Get off with the teacher.

A lot of these tips I found helpful but with most of them I have found myself doing. I often wonder if something has been left out.

Yours
Secret Virgin